Alright... I've been out of the Blog world for quite some time .. Well a month and 5 days to be Precise!! Its been a torrid 1 long month at my end. The most stressful, most infuriating, a hell lot of depressing times in long time. The last 30 days have made me go from bad to worse and jet back to normalcy. Its been a time when i've seen myself crumbling down to pieces and then gathering them in a hope to mend them into the right shape. A process that I'm trying to do NOW. I have seen some great support come by in these tough times.. Some great friends helping me come to terms with reality. Some solely discarding me and my precarious situation. Its been a time when i've had some of the most important learning's of my life! So My friends on the Blog world..Here's my Musings after a rough time in Life!
(1)Its just not good enough to be Good and kind to others - You've got to be kind and good to Yourself too.
(2) If something's not to be for you - It never will be there for you No matter how much you struggle for it.
(3) Its never easy to LET GO of anything/anyone close to you. But its the MOST important thing You have to do if you want to get on with Life.
(4) Nothing in life is worth the pain it causes
(5) The most significant factor of being happy in life is - Taking the Decision to be HAPPY.
No one But you alone can decide to be happy. No matter what the situation is , No matter how people perceive you, No matter how things work for you, if You decide not to get upset NO ONE can make you Upset!
(6) Trying too hard to make others happy some times leaves greatest of Pain to you.
Well. Some rants they were !! Aint it?? Some ( or may is say all) of these things might not suit your ideology. In fact I still have a great ambiguity in believing these things that i have gone through. But the reason i have put them here is coz I've genuinely felt the aforementioned pain and troubles in the last few weeks. I may be plain paranoid or May be Not! I'm still in the process of getting off the roll back mechanism.
I dunno why I've blurted out my angst here.. May be i wanted an exhaust for my frustration or may be i just wanted to cry it loud or may be because I dont have a clue. If you ever have gone through the same crap ever - Welcome to the club friend!!
Peace!
rammy
5 comments:
WOW! Exactly my thoughts! I have been thinking in the same lines since last year and I too reached the conclusion that if I want others to be happy, I have to make myself happy first! It becomes a total mess of we do the opposite. May sound selfish to most people, but that's the truth! Great post! Good that your frustration came out:D
@ Varsha
As you see, you are the only one who's responded to the post.Goes on to show that how much you might have related with it. Its such a bizarre coincidence to see both of us on the same state of mind.
Yes, you are absolutely true to say that sometimes its important to think about self. Its a sin to neglect yourself and keep ur emotions at bay. At least you've got to give your life a chance!
thnx for reinstating my views. and do keep coming :)
cheers
rammy
Hey Ram...Beautifully expressed.Even I have been wondering why even after we put our 100% into something it fails.Infact have been searching for answers for quite some time.Ur post gave me the answer.If sth is not destined to be ours ,no matter how much we struggle u dont get it..Great Work.Keep posting:)
Интересно написано....но многое остается непонятнымb
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